--- title: What is Neuro-affirming Care? 4 Experts Weigh in on Therapy, Burnout, and Better Support description: Explore what neuroaffirming care looks like in practice as four experts share insights on therapy, masking, burnout recovery, and better support. image: https://becomingyourself.com/hubfs/neuroaffirming-care-adults-self-understanding.webp --- [Skip to main content](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/neuroaffirming-care-expert-perspectives#main-content) [![Becoming Yourself Logo - Secondary](https://becomingyourself.com/hubfs/Becoming%20Yourself%20Logo%20-%20Secondary.svg) ![Becoming Yourself Logo - Secondary](https://becomingyourself.com/hubfs/Becoming%20Yourself%20Logo%20-%20Secondary.svg) ![Becoming Yourself Logo - Secondary](https://becomingyourself.com/hubfs/Becoming%20Yourself%20Logo%20-%20Secondary.svg) ![Becoming Yourself Logo - Secondary](https://becomingyourself.com/hubfs/Becoming%20Yourself%20Logo%20-%20Secondary.svg)](https://becomingyourself.com) - [Home](https://becomingyourself.com) - [Services & Approach](https://becomingyourself.com/neurodiversity-affirming-therapy-ontario) - [Our Team](https://becomingyourself.com/team) - [Contact](https://becomingyourself.com/contact) - [Blog](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself) Open main navigation Close main navigation - [Home](https://becomingyourself.com) - [Services & Approach](https://becomingyourself.com/neurodiversity-affirming-therapy-ontario) - [Our Team](https://becomingyourself.com/team) - [Contact](https://becomingyourself.com/contact) - [Blog](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself) - [FREE Meet & Greet](https://becomingyourself.janeapp.com/#/list) [FREE Meet & Greet](https://becomingyourself.janeapp.com/#/list) [Blog](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself) Tags - [Autism](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/autism) - [neurodiversity-affirming therapy](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/neurodiversity-affirming-therapy) - [Identity and Self](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/identity-and-self) - [ADHD](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/adhd) - [Burnout and Masking](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/burnout-and-masking) - [AuDHD](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/audhd) - [Therapy for gifted adults](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/therapy-for-gifted-adults) Search - [Autism](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/autism) - [neurodiversity-affirming therapy](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/neurodiversity-affirming-therapy) - [Identity and Self](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/identity-and-self) - [ADHD](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/adhd) - [Burnout and Masking](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/burnout-and-masking) - [AuDHD](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/audhd) - [Therapy for gifted adults](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/therapy-for-gifted-adults) [neurodiversity-affirming therapy](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/neurodiversity-affirming-therapy) [Burnout and Masking](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/burnout-and-masking) [Unmasking](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/unmasking) [workplace](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/workplace) [Sensory](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/sensory) # What Is Neuro-affirming Care? 4 Experts on Therapy, Burnout Recovery, and Better Support ![What Is Neuro-affirming Care? 4 Experts on Therapy, Burnout Recovery, and Better Support](https://becomingyourself.com/hs-fs/hubfs/neuroaffirming-care-adults-self-understanding.webp?width=1200&height=820&name=neuroaffirming-care-adults-self-understanding.webp) Neuroaffirming care is becoming more visible in conversations around autism, ADHD, and AuDHD, late diagnosis, masking, and neurodivergent burnout. However, experts point out that the right support still requires a personalized approach. But what does neuroaffirming care actually mean? What should neurodivergent adults know about recovering from burnout? What gives experts in this field hope about what comes next for neuro-affirming care? To answer these questions, I asked several of my colleagues in Canada to share their insights. In the following article, I share their responses and discuss how individuals and clinicians can work together to create care that adapts to the person, rather than pushes conformity. Since neuroaffirming care can become a broad label, this article looks at what that approach actually means in practice. *By Michael Holker, HBA, BSW, MSW — Registered Social Worker | Psychotherapist · Published September 2026* ## What Does Neuroaffirming Care Actually Look Like? There is no single therapy called "neuroaffirming care". Instead, it is an approach to care that can inform how different therapeutic methods are adapted to the individual. Neurodivergence is not something that needs to be corrected. Neuroaffirming care is built around what the individual needs, not who they should become. In practice, this looks like shifting away from "how do we make this person behave or function more normally?" and toward "What does this individual need to function sustainably?" Across the experts I spoke with, and within my own practice, adaptation is the hallmark of supportive therapy for neurodivergent individuals. For example, I view each individual as an expert in their own experience. They know what is best for their needs. Additionally, we focus on their strengths and how to support them in their daily life. Neuroaffirming care also looks like curiosity rather than assumption, validation of experiences, and learning how to communicate differences. Instead of teaching individuals how to mask, we explore what unmasking safely can look and feel like, first in a safe environment and eventually in their personal lives. Deeper self-understanding naturally leads to self-advocacy and empowers neurodivergent individuals to build a life that supports their strengths. Ultimately, neuroaffirming support focuses less on correcting difference and more on understanding what helps a person live authentically and sustainably. ### Michael Holker, BSW, MSW, RSW "For many neurodivergent adults, therapy has been one more room where they had to translate for themselves. A neuroaffirming approach begins by refusing to be that room. Therapy adapts to the nervous system in front of it. Pacing, communication style, session structure, and even sensory input are built around the individual. Underneath those adjustments is a stance that matters more than any technique: the client is the expert on themselves." ***Michael Holker*** is the founder of [Becoming Yourself Counselling and Consulting](https://becomingyourself.com/contact), a virtual neurodiversity-affirming practice serving late-diagnosed and recently diagnosed ADHD, autistic, AuDHD, and gifted adults across Ontario. ### Rebecca Goldstein, MSW, RSW, MTA, FAMI One guiding principle of a neuroaffirming approach is that neurodivergence does not need to be corrected or trained out. Instead, I help people get curious about how their brain and system work. What works well for them, what overwhelms them, what they have learned to mask, what environments or expectations might be making life more challenging, and where there is space for even the slightest shifts. I ask: What would help this person live in a way that is more sustainable, authentic, and aligned with their actual needs?" ***Rebecca Goldstein*** is a neurodivergent-affirming therapist, founder, and music therapist at [TuneinTherapy](https://www.tuneintherapy.org/), supporting adults navigating neurodivergence, trauma, burnout, and building more sustainable, meaningful lives. ### Dori Zener, MSW, RSW, Founder and Director of Dori Zener & Associates "Neuroaffirming care positions the client as the expert in their experience. Our therapists adamantly reject all deficit-based understandings of neurodiversity and approach care from a strengths-based, person-centered perspective. A lot of neurodivergent people are disconnected from their needs due to years of masking and people-pleasing. Our goal is to help them reconnect with and prioritize their wants and needs and develop the skills and confidence to advocate for themselves." ***Dori Zener*** is the Founder and Director of [Dori Zener & Associates](https://www.dorizener.com/team/dori-zener), a neuroaffirming mental health practice offering counselling, job and executive functioning coaching, parent support, autistic-led peer support groups, and therapist-led workshops. She created INVEST: Essentials in Neuroaffirming Care. ### Shawn Smith, M.Ed., CCC, LCT "I don't know about 'a' neuro-affirming approach, but I know about mine—using positive psychology. It presumes something right with the client rather than using other theories that suppose something is wrong. Another way I put this is that a diagnosis is now thought of as a broken part of a machine that once identified can be fixed… but we aren't machines; we are people, and we don't need fixing; we need nurturing." ***Shawn Smith*** is an autistic and ADHD counsellor, psychotherapist, and founder of [Don't dis-my-ability ®](https://www.ddmacs.ca/index.html) Consultation Services Inc. He supports neurodivergent children, adults, and families, with a focus on self-worth, trauma, masking, identity, and acceptance informed by both professional expertise and lived experience. While each expert has their own approach to neuroaffirming care, several themes emerge from their practices. First, there is less emphasis on correcting a "problem" in neurodivergent individuals, and more attention to their individual experiences. The result is a more flexible approach that includes the environment as well. Those same themes become particularly important when the conversation around neurodiversity shifts to burnout and recovery. ## Why Neurodivergent Burnout Recovery May Require More Than Rest [Neurodivergent burnout](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/neurodivergent-burnout-recovery-in-ontario) doesn't look exactly like neurotypical burnout, and recovery requires a unique blend of proper rest and identifying what caused it. Burnout happens for several reasons. Some late-diagnosed adults have spent their lives masking their neurodiversity. Over time, that can lead to an overwhelmed nervous system and ultimately burnout. For others, extreme sensory load, demanding careers, unclear expectations, workplace mismatches, lack of accommodation for sensory needs, and repeated pushing beyond capacity contribute to burnout. Recovery does not necessarily mean becoming capable of tolerating the same unsustainable circumstances again. It may mean changing environments. Unfortunately, some circumstances can't be changed easily or immediately. The question becomes, what are you recovering from, and what continues to consume your capacity? **Michael Holker** "Rest is where recovery starts, and where most advice stops. If you return to the same masking, sensory load, and commitments made from an old idea of your capacity, the same life can produce the same burnout. Rest treats the depletion. It doesn't touch what was depleting you. The real work is identifying what, specifically, is draining you." **Rebecca Goldstein** "Burnout recovery doesn't happen by getting better at doing the same amount of things. Neurodivergent adults may need less demand, more recovery time, different expectations, accommodations, or permission to stop performing at a level that was never sustainable. The goal is not simply to recover enough to return to the exact conditions that caused the burnout." **Dori Zener** "Burnout recovery takes time and often involves reducing the tasks in your life that are draining, wherever possible. Work can be a major source of misalignment, whether because of job demands, unclear expectations, or lack of accommodations. Sometimes recovery requires reevaluating employment, relationships, responsibilities, or environments so the same conditions do not continue producing burnout." **Shawn Smith** "Recovery can take a really long time. After burnout, it can feel like there is a new line drawn in the sand, and things we once had capacity for may no longer feel as manageable — things like making phone calls, booking appointments, cleaning, or household tasks." These perspectives also align with research on autistic burnout. In a participatory study by [Raymaker et al. (2020](https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/32851204/)), autistic participants identified reduced load, acceptance and social support, and opportunities to be unmasked among factors associated with burnout recovery. ## What Gives These Professionals Hope About the Future of Neuroaffirming Care? Neuroaffirming thinking is expanding beyond what happens between an individual therapist and client. The experts I spoke with have a lot to say about their hopes for the future of neuroaffirming care in Canada and beyond. ### Michael Holker "Professionally, the research is finally being done with neurodivergent people instead of on them, and on a far wider population than the white boys it long centered. Structurally, late-diagnosed adults are reshaping the field simply by showing up. The field is also developing something it badly needed: standards. The fact that we're now debating what 'neuro-affirming' must actually involve, rather than accepting it as a marketing word, is what a maturing movement looks like." ### Rebecca Goldstein "I'm encouraged by the rising number of clinicians who are willing to listen to lived experience rather than treating traditional clinical models as the only source of expertise. There is still a lot of work to do. Still, I'm seeing that the care is becoming less about teaching neurodivergent people how to 'act normally' and more about helping them understand and advocate for themselves while building lives that match their values and needs." ### Dori Zener "I’ve been in the field for 20 years as a social worker. One really hopeful trend I am seeing is how parents approach support. It used to be ‘fix my kid’. Now parents are asking for a neuroaffirming approach. Instead of ‘fix my kid,’ they are thinking: how can I change, or how can my child’s environment change, so my child feels happy and healthy. This is really hopeful for the future of neurodivergent kids and adults.” ### Shawn Smith “One thing that gives me hope is the change in work culture for some organizations. I have had several organizations—small non-profits, government, and large for-profit organizations—reach out to me to provide training on neuro-inclusive workplaces to understand better and support their neurodivergent employees. The feedback from these trainings has been overwhelmingly positive and has led to other organizations reaching out.” ## What Can We Take From These Perspectives? While these insights help us understand the current state of neuroaffirming care, they are not a formal consensus statement. Each contributor I spoke with brings their unique philosophy and experience. That is the beauty of this work. Yet, a theme remains. Neurodivergence should not automatically be treated as a deficit; lived experience deserves a meaningful role in care, and our environment influences our wellbeing. Capacity, masking, sensory needs, environmental demands, and available accommodations look different for every person. For that reason, burnout recovery may involve a different combination of rest, support, environmental changes, and adjusted expectations for each individual. Neuroaffirming care is less about creating a new rigid model and more about making support responsive to the individual. ## The “Becoming Yourself” Approach As a counsellor, I provide virtual neurodiversity-affirming therapy across Ontario, and work with late-diagnosed and recently diagnosed ADHD, autistic, AuDHD, and gifted adults. My approach is to reduce the pressure to work against your own neurology continually and to recognize the role self-understanding and self-compassion play in building a more sustainable way of living. You can read more about [my background and how I work](https://becomingyourself.com/michael-holker), or [meet the therapists at Becoming Yourself](https://becomingyourself.com/team) if you're weighing who might be the better fit. When you're ready, the first step is a [free 20-minute meet-and-greet](https://becomingyourself.com/contact) — no referral needed, and no pressure to commit to anything in that conversation. ### Frequently Asked Questions About Neuro-affirming Care #### What is neuro-affirming care, in plain terms? Neuro-affirming care is an approach rather than a single therapy model. It treats ADHD, autism, AuDHD, and other neurotypes as natural variations in human neurology rather than deficits to be corrected, and it adapts the support to the person instead of asking the person to adapt to the support. In practice, that means pacing, communication style, sensory conditions, and goals are shaped around the individual, and the client is treated as the expert on their own experience. For a fuller walkthrough of what this looks like session to session, see our guide to [neuro-affirming therapy in Ontario](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/neuro-affirming-therapy-ontario-guide). #### Is neuro-affirming the same as neurodiversity-affirming? In everyday use, yes — the terms are used interchangeably, along with "neurodivergent-affirming." Some clinicians prefer *neurodiversity-affirming* because neurodiversity describes variation across a whole population, while an individual person is neurodivergent. The distinction matters less than what a clinician actually does. Because none of these labels are regulated or credentialed, the more useful question is not which word appears on a website, but whether the care itself adapts to the person in front of it. #### What does a neuro-affirming therapist do differently? Much of it is quieter than people expect. Sessions may be structured differently — an agenda sent ahead, a camera that can stay off, permission to stim, fidget, pace, or look away, and space to write rather than speak when words are slow to arrive. Sensory load is treated as real information rather than a preference. Goals also shift. Instead of working toward appearing more typical, the work orients toward self-understanding, sustainable capacity, self-advocacy, and safety to unmask. The adjustments are visible; the underlying stance — that nothing here needs correcting — is what makes them coherent. #### How can I tell if a therapist is genuinely neuro-affirming? Ask directly, and listen for specifics. Useful questions include: How would you adapt sessions to how I process and communicate? How do you think about masking? What would you consider progress for someone like me? Answers that centre reducing visible traits, improving eye contact, or functioning more typically suggest a deficit frame, however warm the language around it. Many neurodivergent adults have learned to override their own discomfort in professional settings, so it can help to treat a first conversation as information-gathering rather than a commitment. #### Do I need a formal diagnosis to start neuro-affirming therapy? No. Many of the adults we work with are self-identified, on an assessment waitlist, or still deciding whether formal assessment is something they want. Therapy doesn't require a diagnostic letter to take your experience seriously. What matters is that the support is built around how you actually function. If you're weighing whether this is a fit, the first step is a free 20-minute meet-and-greet — no referral needed, and no pressure to commit in that conversation. --- *Michael Holker is a Registered Social Worker and neurodiversity-affirming therapist in Ontario, with lived experience of neurodivergence. He offers virtual therapy for adults with ADHD, autism, AuDHD, giftedness, and twice-exceptionality.*[*Learn more about working with Michael →*](https://becomingyourself.com/michael-holker) ## Blog Disclaimer This blog may include occasional personal reflections or composite-style anecdotes to illustrate therapeutic ideas and foster connection. Any identifying details have been altered, omitted, or generalized to protect confidentiality. These examples are shared for educational purposes only. Every person’s experience is unique, and what resonates with one individual may not apply to another. 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It treats ADHD, autism, AuDHD, and other neurotypes as natural variations in human neurology rather than deficits to be corrected, and it adapts the support to the person instead of asking the person to adapt to the support. In practice, that means pacing, communication style, sensory conditions, and goals are shaped around the individual, and the client is treated as the expert on their own experience. For a fuller walkthrough of what this looks like session to session, see our guide to neuro-affirming therapy in Ontario." }, "name" : "What is neuro-affirming care, in plain terms?" }, { "@type" : "Question", "acceptedAnswer" : { "@type" : "Answer", "text" : "In everyday use, yes — the terms are used interchangeably, along with \"neurodivergent-affirming.\" Some clinicians prefer neurodiversity-affirming because neurodiversity describes variation across a whole population, while an individual person is neurodivergent. The distinction matters less than what a clinician actually does. Because none of these labels are regulated or credentialed, the more useful question is not which word appears on a website, but whether the care itself adapts to the person in front of it." }, "name" : "Is neuro-affirming the same as neurodiversity-affirming?" }, { "@type" : "Question", "acceptedAnswer" : { "@type" : "Answer", "text" : "Much of it is quieter than people expect. Sessions may be structured differently — an agenda sent ahead, a camera that can stay off, permission to stim, fidget, pace, or look away, and space to write rather than speak when words are slow to arrive. Sensory load is treated as real information rather than a preference. Goals also shift. Instead of working toward appearing more typical, the work orients toward self-understanding, sustainable capacity, self-advocacy, and safety to unmask. The adjustments are visible; the underlying stance — that nothing here needs correcting — is what makes them coherent." }, "name" : "What does a neuro-affirming therapist do differently?" }, { "@type" : "Question", "acceptedAnswer" : { "@type" : "Answer", "text" : "Ask directly, and listen for specifics. Useful questions include: How would you adapt sessions to how I process and communicate? How do you think about masking? What would you consider progress for someone like me? Answers that centre reducing visible traits, improving eye contact, or functioning more typically suggest a deficit frame, however warm the language around it. Many neurodivergent adults have learned to override their own discomfort in professional settings, so it can help to treat a first conversation as information-gathering rather than a commitment." }, "name" : "How can I tell if a therapist is genuinely neuro-affirming?" }, { "@type" : "Question", "acceptedAnswer" : { "@type" : "Answer", "text" : "No. Many of the adults we work with are self-identified, on an assessment waitlist, or still deciding whether formal assessment is something they want. Therapy doesn't require a diagnostic letter to take your experience seriously. What matters is that the support is built around how you actually function. If you're weighing whether this is a fit, the first step is a free 20-minute meet-and-greet — no referral needed, and no pressure to commit in that conversation." }, "name" : "Do I need a formal diagnosis to start neuro-affirming therapy?" } ] } ```