--- title: "On Becoming Yourself: Insights, Reflections and Resources (2)" description: ‘On Becoming Yourself’ explores neurodiversity-affirming blog posts on ADHD, autism, AuDHD, giftedness, 2e and authentic living for adults across Ontario. 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[![Woman rediscovering herself after being diagnosed with autism as an adult, moving from masking and self-doubt toward clarity, relief, and identity.](https://becomingyourself.com/hs-fs/hubfs/Rediscovering%20Yourself%20After%20a%20Late%20Diagnosis%20What%20Identity%20Looks%20Like%20on%20the%20Other%20SideV116-9.webp?width=365&name=Rediscovering%20Yourself%20After%20a%20Late%20Diagnosis%20What%20Identity%20Looks%20Like%20on%20the%20Other%20SideV116-9.webp)](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/what-identity-looks-like-after-late-diagnosis-of-autism) Apr 10, 2026, 4:00:00 PM ## [Rediscovering Yourself After a Late Diagnosis: What Identity Looks Like on the Other Side](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/what-identity-looks-like-after-late-diagnosis-of-autism) *By Michael Holker BSW, MSW, Registered Social Worker | Psychotherapist | Published: July 2026* *This...* [![Illustration showing two therapy paths representing how to choose a neurodivergent-affirming therapist in Ontario for ADHD, autism, and AuDHD adults.](https://becomingyourself.com/hs-fs/hubfs/choose-neurodivergent-affirming-therapist-ontario-audhd-autism-therapy.webp?width=365&name=choose-neurodivergent-affirming-therapist-ontario-audhd-autism-therapy.webp)](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/choose-neurodivergent-affirming-therapist) Mar 27, 2026, 10:00:00 AM ## [How to Choose a Neurodivergent-Affirming Therapist in Ontario](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/choose-neurodivergent-affirming-therapist) *By Michael Holker BSW, MSW, Registered Social Worker | Psychotherapist | Published: July 2026* *This...* [![Illustration of overwhelmed gifted adult with tangled thoughts representing why traditional goal-oriented therapy fails 2e adults seeking therapy for gifted adults in Ontario.](https://becomingyourself.com/hs-fs/hubfs/therapy-for-gifted-adults-ontario-2e-adults-goal-oriented-therapy.webp?width=365&name=therapy-for-gifted-adults-ontario-2e-adults-goal-oriented-therapy.webp)](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/therapy-for-gifted-adults-why-traditional-therapy-fails-2e) Mar 13, 2026, 10:00:00 AM ## [Why Goal-Oriented Therapy Often Misses the Gifted and 2e Adult](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/therapy-for-gifted-adults-why-traditional-therapy-fails-2e) Therapy for gifted adults in Ontario requires a unique understanding of the neurodivergent brain. ... [![Visual metaphor for unmasking autism, depicting autistic masking, internal exhaustion, and autistic burnout symptoms as an individual removes a performed identity to reveal their authentic self. ](https://becomingyourself.com/hs-fs/hubfs/UnmaskingAutism_BlogImage.webp?width=365&name=UnmaskingAutism_BlogImage.webp)](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/unmasking-autism-hidden-cost-of-masking) Feb 27, 2026, 4:00:00 PM ## [Unmasking Autism and The Hidden Cost of Masking](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/unmasking-autism-hidden-cost-of-masking) **TL;DR: Strategic Unmasking** - **Is unmasking autism always the goal**? No. Unmasking autism is a... [![Conceptual illustration asking “Is giftedness neurodivergent?” depicting the twice exceptional (2e) brain, giftedness with ADHD and autism, and the paradox of brilliance alongside burnout.](https://becomingyourself.com/hs-fs/hubfs/IsGiftednessANeurodivergence_BlogImage.webp?width=365&name=IsGiftednessANeurodivergence_BlogImage.webp)](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/is-giftedness-neurodivergent-understanding-2e) Feb 13, 2026, 4:00:00 PM ## [Is Giftedness Neurodivergent? Understanding the 2e Paradox](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/is-giftedness-neurodivergent-understanding-2e) ***Key Takeways*** - **Is giftedness neurodivergent?** Many clinicians now describe giftedness as a form of... [![Person contemplating what is AuDHD? ADHD Symptoms and autism overlap ](https://becomingyourself.com/hs-fs/hubfs/Is%20it%20AuDHD_%20Blog.webp?width=365&name=Is%20it%20AuDHD_%20Blog.webp)](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/what-is-audhd) Jan 30, 2026, 11:00:00 AM ## [What Is AuDHD? Understanding the ADHD Autism Overlap](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/what-is-audhd) What is AuDHD? For many adults suffering with [ADHD symptoms](https://becomingyourself.com/adhd-therapy-for-adults-in-ontario), there feels like something “more” is... [![Man struggling with ADHD symptoms sitting overwhelmed, contrasted with adult man receiving therapy support for undiagnosed ADHD symptoms in men during counselling session.](https://becomingyourself.com/hs-fs/hubfs/ADHD%20Symptoms%20in%20Men%20%26%20Why%20So%20Many%20Go%20Undiagnosed.webp?width=365&name=ADHD%20Symptoms%20in%20Men%20%26%20Why%20So%20Many%20Go%20Undiagnosed.webp)](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/adhd-symptoms-in-men-undiagnosed) Jan 16, 2026, 1:27:04 PM ## [ADHD Symptoms in Men & Why So Many Go Undiagnosed](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/adhd-symptoms-in-men-undiagnosed) *By: Michael Holker BSW, MSW Registered Social Worker | Psychotherapist*  What if your struggle to... [![Person reacting intensely to perceived rejection, representing RSD symptoms in ADHD and autistic adults.](https://becomingyourself.com/hs-fs/hubfs/RSD%20Blog.webp?width=365&name=RSD%20Blog.webp)](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/what-is-rsd-signs-in-adhd-and-autism) Dec 23, 2025, 3:27:52 PM ## [What is Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria & Signs You Experience It](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/what-is-rsd-signs-in-adhd-and-autism) Have you ever felt confused about a situation that ended with a seemingly odd response from someone... [![Adult figure transitioning from autistic burnout and sensory overwhelm into a calm space, symbolizing recovery and reduced neurodivergent symptoms.](https://becomingyourself.com/hs-fs/hubfs/AutisticBurnoutBlog.png?width=365&name=AutisticBurnoutBlog.png)](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/the-ultimate-guide-to-autistic-burnout) Dec 12, 2025, 10:00:00 AM ## [Autistic Burnout: Signs, Causes & How to Recover — A Complete Guide](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/the-ultimate-guide-to-autistic-burnout) ## **How do you know if you’re in autistic burnout?** ## What is Autistic Burnout? Autistic burnout is a... [![Tall Poppy Syndrome for Audhd Indivduals](https://becomingyourself.com/hs-fs/hubfs/image-png.png?width=365&name=image-png.png)](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/breaking-free-from-tall-poppy-syndrome-for-audhd-adults) Nov 5, 2025, 9:34:45 AM ## [Breaking Free from Tall Poppy Syndrome for AuDHD Adults](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/breaking-free-from-tall-poppy-syndrome-for-audhd-adults) “Great spirits have always encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds.”— Albert Einstein *...* [![young blonde handsome man sits on armchair thinking what to do](https://becomingyourself.com/hs-fs/hubfs/thoughtful-young-blonde-handsome-man-sits-armchair-putting-finger-temple-looking-up-inside-living-room.jpg?width=365&name=thoughtful-young-blonde-handsome-man-sits-armchair-putting-finger-temple-looking-up-inside-living-room.jpg)](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/why-neurodivergent-men-struggle-to-recognize-their-own-needs) Oct 29, 2025, 9:40:20 PM ## [Why Neurodivergent Men Struggle to Recognize Their Own Needs](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/why-neurodivergent-men-struggle-to-recognize-their-own-needs) "The most important thing in communication is hearing what isn't said." — Peter Drucker The day... 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