--- title: "On Becoming Yourself: Insights, Reflections and Resources | Giftedness 2e" description: Giftedness 2e | ‘On Becoming Yourself’ explores neurodiversity-affirming blog posts on ADHD, autism, AuDHD, giftedness, 2e and authentic living for adults across Ontario. image: https://becomingyourself.com/hubfs/Onbecoming%20yourself%2c%20resources%20for%20ADHD%2c%20Autism%2c%20AuDHD%20and%202e%20Adults-1.webp --- [Skip to main content](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/giftedness-2e#main-content) [![Becoming Yourself Logo - Secondary](https://becomingyourself.com/hubfs/Becoming%20Yourself%20Logo%20-%20Secondary.svg) ![Becoming Yourself Logo - Secondary](https://becomingyourself.com/hubfs/Becoming%20Yourself%20Logo%20-%20Secondary.svg) ![Becoming Yourself Logo - Secondary](https://becomingyourself.com/hubfs/Becoming%20Yourself%20Logo%20-%20Secondary.svg) ![Becoming Yourself Logo - Secondary](https://becomingyourself.com/hubfs/Becoming%20Yourself%20Logo%20-%20Secondary.svg)](https://becomingyourself.com) - [Home](https://becomingyourself.com) - [Services & Approach](https://becomingyourself.com/neurodiversity-affirming-therapy-ontario) - [Our Team](https://becomingyourself.com/team) - [Contact](https://becomingyourself.com/contact) - [Blog](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself) Open main navigation Close main navigation - [Home](https://becomingyourself.com) - [Services & Approach](https://becomingyourself.com/neurodiversity-affirming-therapy-ontario) - [Our Team](https://becomingyourself.com/team) - [Contact](https://becomingyourself.com/contact) - [Blog](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself) - [FREE Meet & Greet](https://becomingyourself.janeapp.com/#/list) [FREE Meet & Greet](https://becomingyourself.janeapp.com/#/list) [Blog](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself) Tags - [Autism](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/autism) - [neurodiversity-affirming therapy](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/neurodiversity-affirming-therapy) - [Identity and Self](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/identity-and-self) - [ADHD](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/adhd) - [Burnout and Masking](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/burnout-and-masking) - [AuDHD](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/audhd) - [Therapy for gifted adults](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/therapy-for-gifted-adults) Search - [Autism](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/autism) - [neurodiversity-affirming therapy](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/neurodiversity-affirming-therapy) - [Identity and Self](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/identity-and-self) - [ADHD](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/adhd) - [Burnout and Masking](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/burnout-and-masking) - [AuDHD](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/audhd) - [Therapy for gifted adults](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/therapy-for-gifted-adults) # Neurodivergent Journey Giftedness 2e [![Gifted adult boredom at work — a capable professional staring past a finished task in a quiet office](https://becomingyourself.com/hs-fs/hubfs/GiftedMeaning.webp?width=365&name=GiftedMeaning.webp)](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/gifted-adults-meaningful-work) Sep 18, 2026, 9:00:01 AM # [When Competence Isn't Enough: Gifted Adults & Meaningful Work](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/gifted-adults-meaningful-work) *By Michael Holker, MSW, RSW — Registered Social Worker & Psychotherapist · Published Agust 2026* ... [![Gifted adult loneliness — a woman sitting apart, present in the room but feeling unseen](https://becomingyourself.com/hs-fs/hubfs/GiftedLoneliness-1.webp?width=365&name=GiftedLoneliness-1.webp)](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/gifted-adult-loneliness) Sep 1, 2026, 7:50:18 PM # [The Existential Loneliness of Gifted Adults: Feeling Unseen](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/gifted-adult-loneliness) *By Michael Holker, HBA, BSW, MSW — Registered Social Worker | Psychotherapist · Published August...* [![Illustration of overwhelmed gifted adult with tangled thoughts representing why traditional goal-oriented therapy fails 2e adults seeking therapy for gifted adults in Ontario.](https://becomingyourself.com/hs-fs/hubfs/therapy-for-gifted-adults-ontario-2e-adults-goal-oriented-therapy.webp?width=365&name=therapy-for-gifted-adults-ontario-2e-adults-goal-oriented-therapy.webp)](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/therapy-for-gifted-adults-why-traditional-therapy-fails-2e) Mar 13, 2026, 10:00:00 AM # [Therapy for Gifted Adults in Ontario—Why Traditional “Goal-Oriented” Therapy Fails the 2e Adult](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/therapy-for-gifted-adults-why-traditional-therapy-fails-2e) *By: Michael Holker BSW, MSW Registered Social Worker | Psychotherapist*  Therapy for gifted adults... [![Conceptual illustration asking “Is giftedness neurodivergent?” depicting the twice exceptional (2e) brain, giftedness with ADHD and autism, and the paradox of brilliance alongside burnout.](https://becomingyourself.com/hs-fs/hubfs/IsGiftednessANeurodivergence_BlogImage.webp?width=365&name=IsGiftednessANeurodivergence_BlogImage.webp)](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/is-giftedness-neurodivergent-understanding-2e) Feb 13, 2026, 4:00:00 PM # [Is Giftedness Neurodivergent? Understanding the 2e Paradox](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/is-giftedness-neurodivergent-understanding-2e) ***TL;DR: Is giftedness neurodivergent?*** - **The Verdict:** Yes, giftedness is a form of neurodivergence... #### Welcome, We’re glad you’re here. Dive into articles, tools, and insights designed to help you better understand yourself, grow, and feel great. Whether you’re exploring neurodivergence, seeking tips for emotional balance, or simply learning more, we hope these resources support your journey. ###### **Anecdotes and Confidentiality** Personal anecdotes bring ideas to life and foster connection. The identifying details have been changed to ensure confidentiality. These stories illustrate concepts, acknowledging that everyone’s journey is unique. ###### **Disclaimer** This information is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice. Please consult a healthcare provider regarding any medical concerns. I am a registered social worker offering psychotherapy services to Ontario residents.  For a complimentary [Meet & Greet](https://becomingyourself.com/contact) or more on my practice, reach out! 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