--- title: "On Becoming Yourself: Insights, Reflections and Resources | neurodiversity-affirming therapy" description: neurodiversity-affirming therapy | ‘On Becoming Yourself’ explores neurodiversity-affirming blog posts on ADHD, autism, AuDHD, giftedness, 2e and authentic living for adults across Ontario. image: https://becomingyourself.com/hubfs/Onbecoming%20yourself%2c%20resources%20for%20ADHD%2c%20Autism%2c%20AuDHD%20and%202e%20Adults-1.webp --- [Skip to main content](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/neurodiversity-affirming-therapy#main-content) [![Becoming Yourself Logo - Secondary](https://becomingyourself.com/hubfs/Becoming%20Yourself%20Logo%20-%20Secondary.svg) ![Becoming Yourself Logo - Secondary](https://becomingyourself.com/hubfs/Becoming%20Yourself%20Logo%20-%20Secondary.svg) ![Becoming Yourself Logo - Secondary](https://becomingyourself.com/hubfs/Becoming%20Yourself%20Logo%20-%20Secondary.svg) ![Becoming Yourself Logo - Secondary](https://becomingyourself.com/hubfs/Becoming%20Yourself%20Logo%20-%20Secondary.svg)](https://becomingyourself.com) - [Home](https://becomingyourself.com) - [Services & Approach](https://becomingyourself.com/neurodiversity-affirming-therapy-ontario) - [Our Team](https://becomingyourself.com/team) - [Contact](https://becomingyourself.com/contact) - [Blog](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself) Open main navigation Close main navigation - [Home](https://becomingyourself.com) - [Services & Approach](https://becomingyourself.com/neurodiversity-affirming-therapy-ontario) - [Our Team](https://becomingyourself.com/team) - [Contact](https://becomingyourself.com/contact) - [Blog](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself) - [FREE Meet & Greet](https://becomingyourself.janeapp.com/#/list) [FREE Meet & Greet](https://becomingyourself.janeapp.com/#/list) [Blog](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself) Tags - [Autism](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/autism) - [neurodiversity-affirming therapy](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/neurodiversity-affirming-therapy) - [Identity and Self](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/identity-and-self) - [ADHD](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/adhd) - [Burnout and Masking](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/burnout-and-masking) - [AuDHD](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/audhd) - [Therapy for gifted adults](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/therapy-for-gifted-adults) Search - [Autism](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/autism) - [neurodiversity-affirming therapy](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/neurodiversity-affirming-therapy) - [Identity and Self](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/identity-and-self) - [ADHD](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/adhd) - [Burnout and Masking](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/burnout-and-masking) - [AuDHD](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/audhd) - [Therapy for gifted adults](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/therapy-for-gifted-adults) # Neurodivergent Journey neurodiversity-affirming therapy [![Adult relaxing with a journal in a sunlit living room, illustrating self-understanding and wellbeing through neuroaffirming care.](https://becomingyourself.com/hs-fs/hubfs/neuroaffirming-care-adults-self-understanding.webp?width=365&name=neuroaffirming-care-adults-self-understanding.webp)](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/neuroaffirming-care-expert-perspectives) Sep 25, 2026, 8:30:00 AM # [What Is Neuro-affirming Care? 4 Experts on Therapy, Burnout Recovery, and Better Support](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/neuroaffirming-care-expert-perspectives) Neuroaffirming care is becoming more visible in conversations around autism, ADHD, and AuDHD, late... [![Euodia Leung, MSW, RSW, now accepting new therapy clients across Ontario at Becoming Yourself](https://becomingyourself.com/hs-fs/hubfs/EuodiaLeungRSW%20(1).png?width=365&name=EuodiaLeungRSW%20(1).png)](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/euodia-leung-rsw-joins-becoming-yourself) Sep 3, 2026, 3:05:30 PM # [Becoming Yourself Is Growing: Euodia Leung, MSW, RSW Has Joined the Practice](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/euodia-leung-rsw-joins-becoming-yourself) *By Michael Holker, HBA, BSW, MSW — Registered Social Worker | Psychotherapist · Published September...* [![Illustration showing two therapy paths representing how to choose a neurodivergent-affirming therapist in Ontario for ADHD, autism, and AuDHD adults.](https://becomingyourself.com/hs-fs/hubfs/choose-neurodivergent-affirming-therapist-ontario-audhd-autism-therapy.webp?width=365&name=choose-neurodivergent-affirming-therapist-ontario-audhd-autism-therapy.webp)](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/choose-neurodivergent-affirming-therapist) Mar 27, 2026, 10:00:00 AM # [How to Choose a Neurodivergent-Affirming Therapist in Ontario](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/choose-neurodivergent-affirming-therapist) *By Michael Holker BSW, MSW, Registered Social Worker | Psychotherapist | Published: July 2026* *This...* [![a worried man standing with crossed arms between two coworkers having a difficult conversation in an office setting.”](https://becomingyourself.com/hs-fs/hubfs/pic%201%20(1).jpg?width=365&name=pic%201%20(1).jpg)](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/setting-boundaries-in-the-workplace-as-a-neurodivergent-adult) Oct 28, 2025, 9:57:02 AM # [Neurodivergent Burnout and Setting Boundaries at Work — A More Honest Framework](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/setting-boundaries-in-the-workplace-as-a-neurodivergent-adult) "When we avoid difficult conversations, we trade short-term discomfort for long-term dysfunction."... [![a man in trauma infromed care session](https://becomingyourself.com/hs-fs/hubfs/close-up-man-discussing-with-therapist.jpg?width=365&name=close-up-man-discussing-with-therapist.jpg)](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/trauma-informed-care-for-neurodivergent-adults) Sep 12, 2025, 10:02:09 AM # [Why Trauma Feels Different for Neurodivergent Adults and What Actually Helps](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/trauma-informed-care-for-neurodivergent-adults) *"What happened to you?" is a more honest question than "What is wrong with you?"* For many... 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What It Really Means (From a Therapist Who Lives It)](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/neuro-affirming-therapy-ontario-guide) “Healing should never require hiding." I remember the first time I sat across from a therapist and... [![Individuals refelcting on Self-compassion and acceptance](https://becomingyourself.com/hs-fs/hubfs/1FD27AE0-6E29-421E-A9A4-0879627746CF.png?width=365&name=1FD27AE0-6E29-421E-A9A4-0879627746CF.png)](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/acceptance-self-compassion-resilience-guide) May 16, 2025, 10:05:55 AM # [Self-Compassion for Neurodivergent Adults, Acceptance, Resilience & Healing](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/acceptance-self-compassion-resilience-guide) "You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection." —... [![Neurodivergence, ADHD, Autism, AuDHD and the need for healthy boundaries](https://becomingyourself.com/hs-fs/hubfs/Image%203%20(1).png?width=365&name=Image%203%20(1).png)](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/the-importance-of-setting-boundaries) Mar 7, 2025, 8:28:22 AM # [Boundaries for Neurodivergent Adults — Protecting Energy and Capacity](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/the-importance-of-setting-boundaries) ## *"Daring to set boundaries is about having the courage to love ourselves, even when we risk...* [![Image show choose the path of continuing using substances to cope, or choosing harm reduction.](https://becomingyourself.com/hs-fs/hubfs/Image.png?width=365&name=Image.png)](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/neurodivergence-and-addressing-substance-use) Feb 28, 2025, 1:32:00 PM # [Neurodivergence and Substance Use — Understanding the Link](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/neurodivergence-and-addressing-substance-use) *|Addiction is an adaptation. It's not you — it's the cage you live in."* — Johann Hari There is a... 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Explore how Karen Horney’s insights can help you... [1](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/neurodiversity-affirming-therapy) [2](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/neurodiversity-affirming-therapy/page/2) [Next](https://becomingyourself.com/onbecomingyourself/tag/neurodiversity-affirming-therapy/page/2) #### Welcome, We’re glad you’re here. Dive into articles, tools, and insights designed to help you better understand yourself, grow, and feel great. Whether you’re exploring neurodivergence, seeking tips for emotional balance, or simply learning more, we hope these resources support your journey. ###### **Anecdotes and Confidentiality** Personal anecdotes bring ideas to life and foster connection. The identifying details have been changed to ensure confidentiality. These stories illustrate concepts, acknowledging that everyone’s journey is unique. ###### **Disclaimer** This information is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice. Please consult a healthcare provider regarding any medical concerns. I am a registered social worker offering psychotherapy services to Ontario residents.  For a complimentary [Meet & Greet](https://becomingyourself.com/contact) or more on my practice, reach out! 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