“You have been taught that you are not allowed to feel.”
A quote adapted from bell hooks
You make...
Michael Holker, MSW, RSW, is the compassionate heart behind Becoming Yourself Counselling. Discovering his own neurodivergence later in life shaped his existential, humanistic, and strengths-based approach to therapy. Guided by his lived experience, Michael helps neurodivergent individuals move beyond self-criticism toward self-understanding, self-compassion, and self-acceptance. His work invites clients to honour their journeys, embrace their resilience, and reconnect with their authentic selves, cultivating a life of greater alignment and meaning.
“You have been taught that you are not allowed to feel.”
A quote adapted from bell hooks
You make...
"Boundaries are the distance at which I can...
Recognizing...
“Talk to yourself like you would to someone you love.” – Brené Brown
I still remember one...
“Don’t ask what the world needs. Ask...
“The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any...
“The quieter you become, the more you can hear.” — Rumi
Home is meant to be a place of rest,...
Exploring masking neurodivergence, the strategies we use to fit in, and the fatigue that follows.
How seeing ADHD through a lens of strengths opens new possibilities for executive function
“What...
In today's fast-paced world, productivity is often measured by constant activity, nonstop hustle,...
Welcome,
We’re glad you’re here. Dive into articles, tools, and insights designed to help you better understand yourself, grow, and feel great. Whether you’re exploring neurodivergence, seeking tips for emotional balance, or simply learning more, we hope these resources support your journey.
Anecdotes and Confidentiality
Personal anecdotes bring ideas to life and foster connection. The identifying details have been changed to ensure confidentiality. These stories illustrate concepts, acknowledging that everyone’s journey is unique.
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