On Becoming Yourself: Insights, Reflections and Resources

A ceramic bowl with a gold-repaired crack rests on a wooden table in soft morning light symbolziing repairing the cracks of the self-critical mind with self-compassion

Nov 2, 2026, 9:03:06 AM

Self-Compassion for the Self-Critical Mind: What Mindful Self-Compassion Teaches

By Michael Holker, MSW, RSW · Published November 2026 · Clinically reviewed by Euodia Leung, MSW,...

Five smooth stones balanced on a wooden platform supported by an intricate web of strings, overlooking a peaceful mountain landscape, symbolizing the hidden tension and effort behind high-functioning anxiety.

Oct 25, 2026, 11:06:48 AM

The Hidden Weight of High-Functioning Anxiety

By Michael Holker, MSW, RSW · Published October 2026 · Clinically reviewed by Euodia Leung, MSW, RSW

A person reading the room at a dinner table, smiling while their shoulders are tense — people-pleasing as a fawn response

Oct 14, 2026, 9:31:55 PM

How to Stop People-Pleasing — When It Once Kept You Safe

You said yes before you checked whether there was anything left to say yes with.

You apologized for...

Adult relaxing with a journal in a sunlit living room, illustrating self-understanding and wellbeing through neuroaffirming care.

Sep 25, 2026, 8:30:00 AM

Neuro-Affirming Care in Practice: 4 Therapists on What Helps

Neuroaffirming care is becoming more visible in conversations around autism, ADHD, and AuDHD, late...

Gifted adult boredom at work — a capable professional staring past a finished task in a quiet office

Sep 18, 2026, 9:00:01 AM

When Competence Isn't Enough: Gifted Adults & Meaningful Work

By Michael Holker, MSW, RSW · Published August 2026 · Updated October 2026

You might be very good...

Euodia Leung, MSW, RSW, now accepting new therapy clients across Ontario at Becoming Yourself

Sep 3, 2026, 3:05:30 PM

Becoming Yourself Is Growing: Euodia Leung, MSW, RSW Has Joined the Practice

By Michael Holker, MSW, RSW · Published September 2026

Quick facts

Who: Euodia Leung, MSW, RSW —...

Gifted adult loneliness — a woman sitting apart, present in the room but feeling unseen

Sep 1, 2026, 7:50:18 PM

The Existential Loneliness of Gifted Adults: Feeling Unseen

You might be surrounded by people and still feel like the only one of your kind in the room.

Maybe...

Illustration of a neurodivergent man recovering from burnout, moving from exhaustion toward rest, regulation, and renewed energy.

Aug 15, 2026, 9:00:00 AM

Neurodivergent Burnout Recovery: What Healing Takes When Rest Isn’t Enough

Neurodivergent burnout is long-lasting exhaustion, lost skills and lowered tolerance for sensory...

Illustration of an overwhelmed neurodivergent adult experiencing sensory overload from bright lights, noise, and competing sensory input.

Jul 31, 2026, 9:00:00 AM

Sensory Overload in ADHD and Autistic Adults: What Helps

If you have ever left a grocery store feeling like your skin is buzzing or ended a workday so...

Neurodivergent professional masking burnout in Toronto's Financial District corporate towers.

Jul 15, 2026, 9:00:05 AM

When You Can’t Stop Performing: Masking at Work for Neurodivergent Professionals in Toronto

Masking at work is hiding your natural way of being to fit a neurotypical workplace: rehearsing...

Adult sitting calmly in a warm therapy-like space with soft natural light and flowing abstract patterns, representing RSD management for neurodivergent adults in Ontario.

Jun 30, 2026, 9:00:02 AM

How to Manage RSD: Three Strategies for Neurodivergent Adults

By Michael Holker, MSW, RSW · Updated October 2026

To manage rejection sensitive dysphoria, name...

Illustration of a neurodivergent woman calming a shame spiral with self-compassion, representing ADHD, autism, emotional dysregulation, masking, and nervous system regulation in Ontario

Jun 15, 2026, 7:58:24 AM

Shame Spirals in ADHD and Autism: Why and How to Stop Them

"Shame corrodes the very part of us that believes we are capable of change." — Brené Brown

If you...

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Personal anecdotes bring ideas to life and foster connection. The identifying details have been changed to ensure confidentiality. These stories illustrate concepts, acknowledging that everyone’s journey is unique.

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