Neurodivergent Journey Identity and Self

Gifted adult boredom at work — a capable professional staring past a finished task in a quiet office

Sep 18, 2026, 9:00:01 AM

When Competence Isn't Enough: Gifted Adults & Meaningful Work

By Michael Holker, MSW, RSW · Published August 2026 · Updated October 2026

You might be very good...

Woman rediscovering herself after being diagnosed with autism as an adult, moving from masking and self-doubt toward clarity, relief, and identity.

Apr 10, 2026, 4:00:00 PM

Diagnosed With Autism as an Adult: Rediscovering Your Identity After a Late Diagnosis

By Michael Holker, MSW, RSW · Updated October 2026

Identity after a late autism diagnosis means...

Illustration of overwhelmed gifted adult with tangled thoughts representing why traditional goal-oriented therapy fails 2e adults seeking therapy for gifted adults in Ontario.

Mar 13, 2026, 10:00:00 AM

Why Goal-Oriented Therapy Often Misses the Gifted and 2e Adult

Gifted and twice-exceptional adults often need a different kind of therapy, one built on a real...

Conceptual illustration asking “Is giftedness neurodivergent?” depicting the twice exceptional (2e) brain, giftedness with ADHD and autism, and the paradox of brilliance alongside burnout.

Feb 13, 2026, 4:00:00 PM

Is Giftedness Neurodivergent? Understanding the 2e Paradox

Key Takeways

Is giftedness neurodivergent? Many clinicians now describe giftedness as a form of...

Tall Poppy Syndrome for Audhd Indivduals

Nov 5, 2025, 9:34:45 AM

Why Success Makes Us Want to Disappear: Tall Poppy Syndrome in Neurodivergent Adults

“Great spirits have always encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds.”— Albert Einstein

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Illustration of an adult with short auburn hair and glasses arranging colourful stones on a shelf with books, plants, and artwork.

Sep 11, 2025, 7:30:52 AM

The Role of Identity in Neurodivergent Healing

"I am not what happened to me. I am what I choose to become." — Carl Jung

By Michael Holker, MSW,...

Illustration of a woman standing beside her ceramic artwork while two people converse in the background.

May 5, 2025, 1:10:39 PM

Tall Poppy Syndrome: Why Success Can Feel So Lonely

“Great spirits have always encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds.” Albert Einstein

I...

Puzzle pieces representing ADHD and autism traits.

Jan 24, 2025, 8:50:00 AM

Late Diagnosis of AuDHD: A Journey to Self-Discovery

“Know thyself.” – Socrates

This article explains how late diagnosis of ADHD, autism, or both can...

Person Breaking Free from chains of societal norms to become themselves

Nov 29, 2024, 4:52:16 AM

Overcoming the ‘Shoulds’ and Embracing Authenticity

Ever felt trapped by societal expectations?

Explore how Karen Horney’s insights can help you...

Self-Actualization image on top of mountain peak

Sep 17, 2024, 10:47:03 AM

Neurodivergent Self-Actualization — Becoming Yourself in a World That Asked You to Become Someone Else

"Maybe the journey isn't about becoming anything. Maybe it's about unbecoming everything that isn't...

Climbing through adversity, my personal jounrey to becoming myself

Jul 10, 2024, 10:45:21 AM

Becoming Yourself: It Began with My Journey

Discovering Neurodivergence: It Changed Everything

Jung said, "The right way to wholeness is made...

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